On Housewives Of Orange County, Slade is making plans to marry Gretchen by asking her father and taking an extra step by looking at engagement rings with Heather.Gretchen father likes Slade but tells him that he needs to clear up the financial baggage he brings with him.
Gretchen, who is 34 years old has made it clear that if she is to have children with Slade, she wants it done by age 36. What she does not want is to have a man who can't support his child. That is where their problems in their relationship begins. Gretchen and Slade have been a couple now for over 3 years, and Slade brings a lot of financial debt with him from past relationships.He has been owing back child support ever since he and Gretchen been a couple and now Gretchen is seeing that it's becoming a problem.
When Gretchen confronts Slade about when will he take care of this matter, he always tells her that he will handle it soon, and that has been for over 3 years. Now Gretchen, who has money of her own, could easily solve their problem by just paying the child support herself, but feel that Slade should take responsibility. Not only is this affecting her in having children with Slade but she has reserves about marrying him.
While meeting with Tamra, Tamra reminds her that if she were to marry Slade with all of his debt that she will be taking on 50% of the debt herself. Gretchen tells Tamra how much she love Slade but don't think she is ready to get married.
Heather on the other hand has went with Slade to help with an engagement ring. When she meets Gretchen and Gretchen begins to share her feelings about why she may not want to get married again, Heather is surprised by it. She ask if Slade knew how she felt about this and Gretchen felt that she knew more than what she was saying. Heather responds by telling Gretchen that she needs to have a talk with Slade and tell him how she feels.
Now, I'm no expert in relationship, but if someone that I care about brings a lot of financial baggage with them and 3 years later that person is no closer clearing their debt than they were from the beginning, why waste time with this person, especially if I am in my 30's.
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Gretchen, who is 34 years old has made it clear that if she is to have children with Slade, she wants it done by age 36. What she does not want is to have a man who can't support his child. That is where their problems in their relationship begins. Gretchen and Slade have been a couple now for over 3 years, and Slade brings a lot of financial debt with him from past relationships.He has been owing back child support ever since he and Gretchen been a couple and now Gretchen is seeing that it's becoming a problem.
When Gretchen confronts Slade about when will he take care of this matter, he always tells her that he will handle it soon, and that has been for over 3 years. Now Gretchen, who has money of her own, could easily solve their problem by just paying the child support herself, but feel that Slade should take responsibility. Not only is this affecting her in having children with Slade but she has reserves about marrying him.
While meeting with Tamra, Tamra reminds her that if she were to marry Slade with all of his debt that she will be taking on 50% of the debt herself. Gretchen tells Tamra how much she love Slade but don't think she is ready to get married.
Heather on the other hand has went with Slade to help with an engagement ring. When she meets Gretchen and Gretchen begins to share her feelings about why she may not want to get married again, Heather is surprised by it. She ask if Slade knew how she felt about this and Gretchen felt that she knew more than what she was saying. Heather responds by telling Gretchen that she needs to have a talk with Slade and tell him how she feels.
Now, I'm no expert in relationship, but if someone that I care about brings a lot of financial baggage with them and 3 years later that person is no closer clearing their debt than they were from the beginning, why waste time with this person, especially if I am in my 30's.
What do you think about this relationship. Should Gretchen marry Slade if he pops the big question? Join Bravo on Tuesday night for more.
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